A Post in Which I Intellectualize Feeling Threatened
Agreeing to avoid conflict
Not challenging to avoid having a simple thought being explained away by a very complex one
Avoiding expressing feelings/concern for fear of being a leech
Competing with all the others to turn out being the better, more generous person to be awarded with the trust of being confidante
Inability to assert the desire not to talk about something in a way that clearly states: I don't want to. Please accept my wish.
Avoiding holding onto my position for fear of being yet another unable give the other a safe forum