So, now I am sitting here by the metaphorical phone.
What does it mean? He doesn't care, he doesn't have time, he got run over by a bus, he is too pissed off too talk, he got bored and doesn't want to talk any more, he is fucking his gf? Why doesn't he write back?
My Last message says:"I start some fights, you start some. It'd be nice we could talk some other way. What do you think?"
My therapist suggested that it's quite simple, that assigning blame is pointless, so I figure I'd try fig-leaf. I have done it before, but this way is less painful to my pride. He'd actually have to agree. Perhaps he doesn't want to? Maybe that's why he doesn't reply.